I wasn’t sure I wanted to write a blog entry about the death of Michael Jackson, but my inbox is flooded with questions and concerns from fans about how he’s doing on the other side.  So after careful thought, I’ve decided to share what I’ve picked up so far.  Please bear in mind that I [...]

Question: I came across an article about spirit guides, which says that some people have negative spirit guides, who misguide them, and there are some people who don’t have any spirit guides at all (they “lost” them or “dismissed” them). Is that true?
Answer:  I believe we all start out with guides who are well suited [...]

A lot of people appear to be under the impression that a psychic is able to tell you what’s going to happen in your future.  I’ve said it before and I’ll keep saying it, your life is not predestined, you have free will.  Every choice you make today determines your future tomorrow.  The future is [...]

Question:  My boyfriend died in an accident 2 months ago.  His mom had a dream that he came to her and told her he was okay.  But I haven’t had any such contact.  Why won’t he come to me?
Answer:  I get variations of this question a lot.  It’s normal to want contact from people who [...]

Question:  I’m enjoying your blog and learning how to channel my higher self, but how do I know if I’m really in contact with my higher self or with an entity masquerading as my higher self?
Answer:  It takes time, practice, and discernment to know when you’re in contact with your higher self or just your [...]

Question: Have you ever given a reading and learned that the person was going to die soon?  If that happened, would you tell the person?
Answer:  I’ve done readings with people where I could see one of their close loved ones was going to die, and I’ve done readings that contained dire warnings for my sitters [...]

Question:  Can those on the other side read my mind?  Do they know what I’m thinking and planning?  When I talk to my deceased parents, do I need to speak out loud or can they hear my thoughts?
Answer:  Thoughts are energy.  Think of your thoughts as little energy waves that go out into the universe, much [...]

Question:  After I die will I have to deal with a long passed family member, like an abusive parent, or can I choose whether I communicate or not?  What happens to people who were abusive while alive once they get to the other side?
Answer:  When you cross over the chances are excellent you’ll be greeted [...]

Question:  Why do our spirit guides feel the need to drop us on our asses so painfully in order to teach us the error of our ways? Surely there is a less painful way to learn.
Answer:  The guides would ask you why you feel the need to resist your path so stubbornly that being dropped [...]

One of the best ways to connect with your spirit guides (or other beings for that matter) is to use guided meditation.  Many times during my intuitive readings people tell me they’ve tried meditating to commune with their guides but nothing happens.  Invariably they’re making a classic mistake.  I ask, “When you do this meditation, [...]