“You can stand tall without standing on someone. You can be a victor without having victims.” – Harriet Woods
All throughout my childhood my dearest and closest friend was my own twin sister, Nicole.  The love between us was really strong.  Sometimes twins can end up competitive, but we were always supportive and loyal to each […]

Question:  Do deceased family members know when someone is about to die?  Or is their energy so different that they are not connected to them anymore?  Do spirits wait for their spouses to die and then cross over together?  Have you ever seen a spirit wait for a spouse for many years or do they […]

Often during readings I run across people who are fulfilling their parents’ expectations of them instead of doing what they really want to do with their lives.  Usually when such people come to me they are feeling the tug of another path but fear telling their parents that they want to switch careers.  But expectations […]

Empathy is a powerful tool that you can use to help you connect with other people, which will increase your feelings of oneness.  When you can identify a person’s emotional state it gives you more information about that person, which allows you to make a more informed decision about how you’ll interact with or communicate […]

If you’re a parent of two (or more) small children you know that sometimes they can squabble and annoy each other a bit.  My kids, Emily (age 7) and Kyle (age 4), occasionally have a disconnect with each other, also known as a fight or argument, also known as having one of my nerves explode […]

A Vietnamese friend of mine recently asked me an interesting question.  In her culture it is customary to lay some food out as an offering to deceased relatives and ancestors.  She wanted to know what effect that really had on the spirits.  She remarked that sometimes her family would have dreams that their deceased relatives […]

Question:  Is there really such a thing as soul mates?  Is there one specific person I’m supposed to marry in this life time?  If so, is this the same person I meet and marry in every life time?  What do you think?
Answer:  People often ask me about soul mates and whether I believe they exist.  […]

Maybe you already know what you want in a partner or spouse.  Maybe you’re already married to the man or woman of your dreams.  Maybe you’re in a good relationship but not a great one and you’re not sure if you should stay or go.  I consider myself very lucky to be married to the […]

I frequently receive emails from people who want to attract specific people into their lives.  Recently, someone wrote to me wanting to attract an ex-boyfriend back into her life.  She felt they were meant to be together and she wanted to use the law of attraction to manifest him back into her life.  Here is […]

Last week Steve and I took the kids to the amusement park at Circus Circus called the Adventuredome.  It was here that I learned a very valuable lesson about how my own fears could hold someone else back.
In the past, our daughter, Emily, would go on all the kiddie rides (she’s 7) and she adored […]