I want to answer some questions and share some thoughts related to connecting with the deceased during the intuitive readings.  I hope this will clarify some things that are often brought up by my sitters (clients). 
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When you book a reading with a medium and say, “I want you to connect with my dead husband, Greg, who [...]

Some psychics believe there is a heaven and hell, and that people are good or evil.  Some psychics talk to God and Jesus while others talk to Buddha or Krishna.  Some psychics talk to angels while others talk to Elvis.  Some psychics believe in curses while other psychics believe there is no such thing.  Some [...]

Question:  If someone was jealous or angry in life and now they are dead, can they harm the living or cause them trouble in any way?
Answer:  The short answer is possibly, but it’s not likely.  Let me describe the circumstances under which it’s possible and likely.
In my previous blog entry, Crossing Over, I mention that [...]

In most of the psychic readings I do, people ask about their life purpose.  Sometimes people specifically want career advice, and sometimes people just want to know why they’re here, perhaps why they’ve had such a tough life, and how they can help humanity best.  After doing literally hundreds of readings on the topic of [...]

Ever wonder if your deceased grandmother is hovering around you watching your every move?  Do the deceased respect the privacy of the living?  Are they with you in the bathroom and in the bedroom?  What exactly do they see, and what do they think of what you’re doing?
Yes, deceased people can see what you’re doing.  [...]

Recently someone asked me, “What is the most solid piece of evidence you have received about the existence of the afterlife?”  This is a great question so I figured I’d answer it publicly so everyone can benefit.
I am someone who believes there is an afterlife, that our bodies house our souls, and that when we [...]

Recently on the forums a couple of people asked a bunch of really good questions about the dead, the afterlife, reincarnation and the reasons to connect with deceased loved ones.  I am going to answer all of their questions here since not all of my readers visit the forums.  If you have follow up questions [...]

Question:  The other night I had a really vivid dream about my deceased grandfather.  He told me all kinds of interesting things and it felt so real.  Was it really his spirit talking to me or just a dream?  How can I tell the difference?
Answer:  It is possible for deceased loved ones to visit us [...]

A Vietnamese friend of mine recently asked me an interesting question.  In her culture it is customary to lay some food out as an offering to deceased relatives and ancestors.  She wanted to know what effect that really had on the spirits.  She remarked that sometimes her family would have dreams that their deceased relatives [...]

Question:  You mention in your blog entry, Picking Our Parents and Life Circumstances, that people choose the circumstances of their life.  I was born deaf.  Did I choose to suffer with this disability?  Does everyone who is born disabled choose it ahead of time?  Was it karma that made me this way?
Answer: I asked my [...]