http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog Writings about spirituality, the paranormal, and personal development Mon, 07 Jul 2008 20:16:08 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Question:  What has to happen for me never to incarnate again?  Do I have to achieve some sort of perfection? Who or what decides if I have to come back to this world?  Can I avoid coming back if I don't want to? Answer:  We are not incarnated to learn perfection, ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/07/do-i-have-to-incarnate-again/ In years past Steve and I attended the I Can Do It conference as members of the audience.  Hay House puts on this conference a few times per year and showcases many of their authors.  It's an amazing, high energy, high awareness conference that has positively impacted both of our ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/07/las-vegas-i-can-do-it-conference-2008-review/ At the 2008 Las Vegas I Can Do It conference that Steve and I just attended a very interesting thing happened during the Friday pre-conference workshop.  I was originally going to see Sonia Choquette because her conference was about developing psychic abilities and I wanted to see how she worked.  But at ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/07/manifesting-a-reading/ In fourth grade my teacher, Mrs. Cameron, had the Golden Rule written out and displayed above the chalkboard so we could see it every day.  "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."  So each day while I was learning that Columbus discovered America, that 8 x ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/the-golden-rule/ Question: How do you open your chakras, how do you close them, and under what circumstances should you do either?  Answer:  In my blog entry on chakras you'll get information about the location, color, and function of each chakra.  Your chakras are always open, for the most part, but they may ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/how-do-you-open-and-close-chakras/ 60-Minute Intuitive Reading Option Now Available Due to high demand I've created an option for a 60-Minute Intuitive Phone Reading.  Most people who wanted the full hour were booking the Combo option where you got a reading and consultation, but I can see now that a 60-Minute all intuitive reading option ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/june-2008-news/ "You can stand tall without standing on someone. You can be a victor without having victims." – Harriet Woods All throughout my childhood my dearest and closest friend was my own twin sister, Nicole.  The love between us was really strong.  Sometimes twins can end up competitive, but we were always ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/to-thine-own-self-be-true/ There are two approaches you can take in life, the control approach or the faith approach.  Neither is better than the other.  Both are valid ways of getting through life.  It's best to pick one and stick with it for maximum effect.  Let's go over both strategies and see what ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/control-vs-faith-which-strategy-is-better/ Question:  Do deceased family members know when someone is about to die?  Or is their energy so different that they are not connected to them anymore?  Do spirits wait for their spouses to die and then cross over together?  Have you ever seen a spirit wait for a spouse for ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/do-deceased-family-members-know-when-someone-is-going-to-die/ Well it's been a while since I recorded a podcast, but today Steve and I recorded a 96 minute podcast together where we discuss psychic abilities, being psychic, and some of my experiences as I developed into a professional psychic.  We had a lot of fun using a very unscripted, ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/audio-podcast-being-psychic/ In 1999, Steve and I went through a bankruptcy which, though hard at the time, turned out to be a great thing because we learned how to be financially smart after that.  It was a hard lesson that came with a lot of stress, panic, and anxiety for me, but ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/06/how-to-be-financially-smart/ Often during readings I run across people who are fulfilling their parents' expectations of them instead of doing what they really want to do with their lives.  Usually when such people come to me they are feeling the tug of another path but fear telling their parents that they want ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/05/are-you-walking-your-own-path/ Empathy is a powerful tool that you can use to help you connect with other people, which will increase your feelings of oneness.  When you can identify a person's emotional state it gives you more information about that person, which allows you to make a more informed decision about how ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/05/5-steps-to-greater-empathy-and-oneness/ Question:  Can a psychic tune in to my spirit guides and get information about me that I don't want them to know?  Can they read me without my permission?  And can a psychic read my mind if I'm sitting with him or her?  If so, is there a way to ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/05/can-psychics-read-people-without-permission/ A question I am asked frequently is how to know if you are receiving guidance or advice from your intuition, your spirit guides, or just your own logic or ego.  It can be difficult to discern the difference if you don't know what signs to look for.  Let's go over ... http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/05/how-to-tell-the-difference-between-your-ego-logic-spirit-guides-and-intuition/