Category: Ask Erin

Ask Erin: How can I speak with my deceased father?

Question: I used to have occasional dreams about my father (deceased). In the last dream he was in a bright white room no walls, or furniture, but we were seated opposite each other at a table. He told me he wouldn’t visit me again as I couldn’t understand what he wanted to tell me. He hasn’t, and that was years ago. Why couldn’t I understand his messages? – Michelle Answer: You probably weren’t vibrating at a high enough frequency to hear him well enough. Spirits who try to communicate with us are on a certain frequency while we are on

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Ask Erin: How do I give sincere compliments?

Question: How do you craft a compliment? After enjoying your article, Kindness is Contagious, I realized that your sincerity came through and changed that room because of the details you spoke. I’d be more likely to say, “I like your hair,” and leave it at that. I have not had good results with this, and as such I (unfortunately) withhold my compliments more often than not. Do you have any pointers for communicating such that the sincerity is received? I am NOT interested in trying to disguise idle flattery. – Joe Answer: First I think it’s great that you want

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Ask Erin: What if I want to be evil?

Question: What if “choosing evil” feels the most natural? I’ve done good in the past, but somehow I’d feel more true to myself if I were to do evil (I haven’t yet). Should I try to change who I am, or who I could be? This issue has been weighing on me for some time. – Evan Answer: Steve’s response would be to try both on for size. Try being evil for 30 days and then try being good for 30 days and see which results you like best. Do both to the best of your ability. I’d venture to

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Ask Erin: How do I get started?

Question: What’s the first step? I occasionally read Steve’s blog and followed the link to yours. How does someone get started to have a shift in consciousness to lead a fuller life? I can’t find how to begin. – Roy Answer: You’ve already begun. You’ve taken your first step already. You’ve decided that the life you’re leading now is not fulfilling to you anymore. Acknowledging that within yourself is a huge step; one that most people will never take. Now you need to get your life moving in the direction that you really want to go. First you need to

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Ask Erin Question: If psychics are really psychic…

Question: If psychics are really psychic then how come they get stuck in natural disasters. Don’t they know they’re coming? – Jim Answer: What you’re really asking is if people can predict or know the future then how could they ever be in an earthquake or other disaster, and wouldn’t they even be able to predict their own death and avoid it, right? Being “psychic” is a lot like having a radio. You have to turn it on, then turn it to a frequency that’s receiving particularly well, and listen. You don’t always get a message that says, “Earthquake, 3:21am,

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