Tag: breaking up

What To Do When Your Paths Diverge

Have you ever been in a romantic relationship that started out fantastic only to fizzle a couple of years (or decades) later? What happened to the dream? The plan? The goal? Did you wake up one day and realize that the two of you had incompatible goals? What did you do about it? Did you give up your own goals so that you could keep walking the same path together? Did you break up? Or did you just argue about it, feeling a ripping sensation as the fabric of your relationship got torn asunder? I’ve done countless readings for people

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How to Energetically Let Go of an Ex

How do you handle break-ups? Do you eat chocolate or ice cream? Cry on your friends’ shoulders? Go drinking with your buddies? Hole yourself up in your room with a box of tissues, a match, and a photo? If you’ve had your heart broken, you know there’s no fast and easy fix. You try to keep the rest of your life together while THAT part of your life breaks into pieces. You’re devastated, undone, cast off, falling without a net or a parachute. It sucks. Then the dust settles and you can breathe again. Sometimes only short gasping breaths, but

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Honoring the Tears

Have you ever suffered a loss? Said goodbye to a relationship? Or a loved one? Did you allow yourself to feel the pain of that loss or did you try stifle it, get past it, ignore it, or bury the pain? Are you still carrying that pain inside of you? Have you ever fully acknowledged that pain? When I first separated from Steve and moved into our smaller home with the kids, I was processing so much grief, change, and loss that I found myself crying at night after the kids were down. During the day I was so busy

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