The Best Ways to Create Strong Bonds with Your Spirit Guides

I am often asked how we can create a stronger connection to our spirit guides.  But first, what are the benefits of creating stronger bonds with our spirit guides?

You’ll Save Time

When you know the likely outcome of a decision, you can avoid going down paths that lead to dead ends or missed opportunities.  Your guides can help you stay on a trajectory that leads to your greatest joy.

You’ll Save Money

I read for a lot of people trying to decide what major to choose in college, or whether they should purchase a specific home, or whether they should cash out a 401k, or which path will lead them to the most lucrative investments.  It’s easy to see how making good financial decisions can only help you in life.

You’ll Save Heartache

Approximately 40% of the readings I do are about relationships.  “Is this new guy I’m dating going to work out or will I end up hating him?”  “Should I get a divorce?”  “How can I guide my child towards better life choices?” 

You’ll Experience More Peace and Joy

Your spirit guides are there to help you manifest your life intention, find more joy, and live a peaceful life.  Connecting with them can help you stay away from toxic people, select fulfilling career paths, earn more money, and find the love of a lifetime.

So how can you make a connection with your guides so you can receive their insight, advice and wisdom?


Sitting in quiet meditation opens a channel to your guides when you want to receive guidance.  Deliberate meditation is one of the easiest and most effective ways to reach them. I highly encourage everyone to learn how to meditate even if you can only do it 5-10 minutes per day.

Develop Your Intuition

Learn how to use your four clair abilities to receive energetic transmissions from your guides.  That’s clairvoyance (clear-seeing), clairaudience (clear-hearing), clairsentience (clear-sensations), and claircognizance (clear-knowing).  You can practice using your clair abilities under the guidance of a teacher, a program, a book, seminar, or psychic development circle.

Trust the Information

Many people can receive intuitive guidance easily enough, but they become unsure whether they should act on it.  You won’t know how effective and accurate the information is until you act on it.

Start with the Little Things

If you’re not ready to trust your intuition with big decisions, start with smaller tasks that won’t make as big an impact in your life.  For me that happened in the grocery store when my guides told me to buy hamburger buns and I told them “I already have some at home” so I skipped the purchase.  When I got home, I saw that my buns were very moldy and I should have bought new one at the store.

Appreciate Your Guides

Consciously send your guides some gratitude and appreciating for their guidance.  They are working behind the scenes, from the other side, to assist you on this journey.  Occasionally acknowledging their existence and their assistance will help you create stronger bonds with them.

Please avail yourself of my Intuition Development Program which is an online course you can do on your own schedule that will help you connect with your guides so you can benefit from their insight and wisdom.

Your guides are there helping you whether you connect with them or not, but it’s a lot easier for them to communicate when you meet them halfway.  Your life will be vastly more fulfilling if you can connect with them when you desire.

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