“When you are looking for love, are you being guided toward someone at the same time they are being guided toward you?” – Nancy
This is a great question. The short answer is yes, absolutely. When your guides find someone who would be a fantastic partner for you, they begin nudging and guiding you in that person’s direction.
The other person’s guides do the same thing.
But if it were easy, everyone would be with their ideal partner.
Sometimes you get the signs and signals from your guides but your intended partner does not.
Sometimes you’re the one missing the clues.
Free will comes into play here, as do other factors. For example, your ideal partner might be very close to your sphere but you’re still in a toxic, abusive relationship with someone else because you’re afraid to be alone or you are economically dependent on your current partner. That will put a damper on you meeting your ideal partner.
Or perhaps you are free and single but you spend all your time reading at home, exercising at home, and never going out and about. Consider how difficult it is for your guides to get you with someone if you aren’t going someplace you can meet him.
If you follow your bliss and you do what you love, it will be a lot easier for you to encounter this future partner. Join a club, volunteer for a charity, exercise at the gym, take a class at the community college, eat at a new restaurant, do your work at the park, attend a seminar, let your friends set you up. Be out there with people so your guides have a fighting chance to bring you two together.
If you’re already out and about and you are meeting a ton of people, consider that your intended partner may not have gotten the memo, and is possibly not out and about like you are.
Also bear in mind that there isn’t just one ideal person for you. Your guides are constantly on the lookout for great partners.
If you’re sitting there thinking, “My guides must have no one for me. I’m destined to be alone,” just drop that thought right now. If you desire a relationship, your guides will work to get you one. Make sure you are doing your part to prepare yourself physically, spiritually and energetically.
If you are in a bad relationship, get out of it and make space for a new one. Make sure your environment is ready for a new relationship. Make sure you’re independent and can take care of yourself. Your guides will not bring you someone to be co-dependent with.
Listen to your intuition. If your guides are urging you to take a certain class or volunteer for a certain charity, listen. Follow your intuition and see what happens.
If you’re not sure what they’re saying or what you should be doing to attract your ideal partner, you can book a session with me and we’ll ask your guides together.