Does it go against the natural order to consult a medium when a loved one dies?

“I have been told my entire life that mediums and psychics are evil and bad and that we should never try to speak to the dead. But I also know people who have gotten validation and peace from consulting a medium after their family member has died. I dearly wish to connect with my deceased son. Does this go against God’s wishes?” – Paul

Since I am a psychic medium, I’m probably a little biased in saying that I don’t see any problem or issue with consulting a good, honest, ethical medium in order to connect with your deceased loved one on the other side.

During readings with clients, I’ve been able to tune in and receive information from thousands of deceased individuals who are grateful for the opportunity to reassure their living loved ones that they are at peace on the other side.

It’s been a tremendous opportunity for me and one for which I am truly grateful.

Reconnecting with a deceased loved one can lessen your grief, especially if you are fearing that your deceased loved ones are somehow suffering on the other side. I’ve read for so many people who thought their loved one who suicided was burning in eternal hell; how reassuring for them to find out their loved one is instead at peace and in a place of unconditional love.

Reconnecting can also help you understand what was going on in a person’s life before they died, bringing you answers or closure if you need it. I’ve read for people whose loved one was murdered and they want to know who did it. I’ve read for people who wanted to know if their loved one was murdered or killed themselves. Knowing those details can end years of torment imagining things that may not have even happened.

But I get it. Some religions teach that psychics and mediums are bad people who work for the Devil. If you carry that belief, you will feel guilty consulting a psychic, so it’s up to you to decide if carrying that belief serves you or not.

I can tell you that if a deceased loved one wants to send you a message they will find a way to do it regardless of whether you consult a medium or not. They will come to you in your dreams and communicate with you. Or they will send signs, signals and synchronicities to let you know they are still around and okay.

Ultimately you must decide for yourself if it’s okay. In my experience, it has always been positive for my clients who hear from their loved ones on the other side. It can really shift the grieving process and make a horrible loss a little easier to bear.

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