“I lost my mom a few weeks ago and I want to know if she is going to be able to help me from the other side? Like will she help me get a good job and find a good partner? Or is she not allowed to do that?” – Mila
It’s difficult to lose a loved one to death, but it can be comforting to know they are intact and well on the other side.
When we die, we leave our bodies, but our souls go back to the ether. People maintain their connections to their living loved ones and they do desire to see us happy.
But what are dead people allowed to help us with? What are they capable of doing?
When you are born, you do so with a set of spirit guides, who are hand-picked by your higher self to help you realize your goals and intentions in this life.
These guides are well-prepared and well-trained for their duties.
Your family and friends? Not so much.
When a person dies, they don’t suddenly become all-knowing and all-wise. Nor do they suddenly become genies able to grant wishes to their living loved ones.
So your deceased mother wants you to be happy, yes, but she can’t just wave a magic wand and make it so. If she could, everyone on Earth would be a billionaire and have the partner of their dreams thanks to deceased family.
The dead understand something we have forgotten. We chose to come here to Earth. We knew it would not be easy but we chose to come anyway.
Your deceased loved ones will not interfere in your life or make decisions for you. They will not rob you of the experience you wanted to have … challenging though your life may be!
But they can help us from the other side in different ways.
First, if you talk to them, they will hear you. They do desire communication with their living loved ones, so if you are paying attention, you will notice those signs that they are there. It is comforting to know they are still there and that you will see them again when you cross over.
Second, they will send you signs and signals that you are on the right track to achieving a goal or desire. While they cannot put the goal right in front of you, they can send you intuitive information about the path you’re on so you’ll know if you’re on the right track or if you should change course.
Third, if they see you are in mortal danger, they will try to warn you. They can’t remove the threat, but they are allowed to send you a warning. This threat could be anything from a car accident, a murderer, or an unhealthy lifestyle that’s about to trigger a heart attack.
Resist the urge to ask your deceased loved ones to do things for you from the other side. They can’t interfere in your life like that. They can’t bring you a job, a partner, or lottery numbers.
But they can see where you’re running in the maze of life and try to signal you about which corridor to run down to achieve a goal. They want to be helpful, but there is only so much they can do.
Your life and your life choices are up to you. Your deceased loved ones are cheering you on from the sidelines, but they cannot magically change your life. That’s entirely up to you.