Category: Death and Dying

What Goes With You To the Other Side?

We all know you can’t take money with you when you die. But let’s talk about what you can and can’t take with you. Some of these may surprise you. You Can’t Take Your Body Your body is like the shell of a peanut. The peanut is your soul and the shell is its house or container while you are incarnated. When you die, your spirit (soul) comes out of your body and moves to another frequency, while your body remains on Earth. You can bury the body, cremate it, put it in a wall, plant the ashes to make

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Will This Life Be Your Last Life?

I was doing a reading the other day for this gal who said, “I went to a psychic a year ago and she told me this was my last life, that I had learned all my lessons and after I died I would never have to come back to Earth. Can you verify whether that’s true?” No, it’s not true. It’s not true for anyone. Who decides if you will reincarnate? It’s not God or Source. It’s you. You decide if you will come back to Earth just as you decide if you will take a vacation to the Caribbean

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Do Deceased People Care Where or How They are Buried?

I just got off a call with a journalist who wanted to interview me for an article he’s writing about cemeteries and the beauty of burial plots. He wanted to know if deceased people care whether their cemetery is pretty or if it doesn’t matter. We had a nice long chat about that. Here’s essentially what I told him. When you die, your body stays here and your soul moves on to another plane. I call it the Ether. You can call it whatever you want, you are someplace else. Your consciousness becomes energy. There is no more body. You

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How long do we retain our personalities once we die?

Let’s say you’re some bloke named Oliver Queen and you die, are you still Oliver Queen on the other side, like forever? Or do you become someone else? Something else? People ask me variations of this question a lot. Here you are, living your life, and one day you croak. You’re greeted by the white light, your guides, some angels, and loved ones on the other side. You have a life review, see what your impact was, and you trip merrily into an afterlife filled with joy, bliss, and an all-you-can-eat dessert bar. Do you live eternally with the same

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