
“I know that I chose to incarnate here on Earth, but is it possible that some souls are created but choose never to incarnate? What do those souls do if they don’t incarnate? Do they just hang out in the ether?”
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“I know that I chose to incarnate here on Earth, but is it possible that some souls are created but choose never to incarnate? What do those souls do if they don’t incarnate? Do they just hang out in the ether?”

Do we have free will on the other side?
“I have often wondered, do we still have free will in the ether? Do choices still have consequences in the after-life? Or is it somehow different? Since I imagine time and space have different meaning there, maybe we just can’t know?”

Does it go against the natural order to consult a medium when a loved one dies?
Does it go against God’s wishes to consult a medium when a loved one dies?

Why Does God Allow People to Die Suddenly?
“If there is a God, why does he/she allow people to pass suddenly and leave families grief-stricken?”

Do Animals See Our Deceased Loved Ones?
“After my husband died, our dog started behaving a little strangely. It’s like he sees someone or something in the corner and will go examine it. Is it possible he’s seeing my deceased husband? If so, is there any way I can see him too or know he’s there?”

The police finally arrived on scene, about 2 hours after I had called them. I explained the situation and they seemed doubtful that anything was wrong, but they were already there and had to do a proper check. The young officers climbed the stairs of the condo and knocked on the door.

How Can You Test the Validity of a Psychic Reading?
How can you know if a reading from a psychic or medium is valid and true?

Will a Missed Opportunity Come Back Around?
“If your spirit guides or the universe send you an opportunity that is in alignment with your life path, but you don’t take the opportunity, will they send it around again? I’m afraid I missed something I can never get back.”

Do Spirit Guides Choose Us or Are They Assigned to Us?
“Do Spirit Guides have multiple humans that they are guides for at the same time? Do they choose whom they will guide?”

Do Deceased Loved Ones Haunt Us After Death?
“My husband died about 3 months ago and since his death I’m noticing a run of bad luck in my life that I think might be him. Could he be haunting me? Is he unhappy with me and how I’m conducting my life since his death? What can I do to appease him?”

Psychic Abilities are Not Gifts
I hear it all the time from the readers of my blog and my clients: “Wow, Erin, you have a tremendous gift.”
They are referring to my psychic abilities. It’s a nice thought, and I know they are complimenting me, but I don’t consider my psychic abilities to be a gift and I’ll tell you why.

How do Spirit Guides Help You When You’re Blocked?
“What do guides do when you really want something but are unconsciously blocking its manifestation? How would they go about helping you get unstuck, when you aren’t even aware you’re stuck?”
Can we use the Law of Attraction to go against our spirit guides wishes?
“Can I go after a goal using the Law of Attraction even if I’m trying to manifest something my guides don’t want me to have?
Do We Become More Enlightened With Each Incarnation?
“Do we become smarter, more compassionate, and more enlightened with each incarnation?” – Abjhur It would be nice to believe that every time you come
How Can You Ensure You Have a Great Afterlife?
“Is there a way to ensure you have a great afterlife?” – Benjamin Your question suggests you believe that the quality of your afterlife experience

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