In past blog entries I’ve alluded to and mentioned an abusive relationship I was in during my late teen years.  Today I’m going to share the entire story of that relationship because it has reached its conclusion; that thread in my tapestry is complete.  About six weeks ago I got word from a friend that [...]

Question:  After I die will I have to deal with a long passed family member, like an abusive parent, or can I choose whether I communicate or not?  What happens to people who were abusive while alive once they get to the other side?
Answer:  When you cross over the chances are excellent you’ll be greeted [...]

Sometimes the most compassionate act you can take towards another is to give them permission to die.  Yes, even if you don’t want to lose them.  Even if you don’t want them to die.  Even if you think you can’t live without them, sometimes you have to let them cross over.  And sometimes they need [...]

The oddest thing happened when I announced publicly in 2006 that I was a psychic medium.  All hell broke loose in my personal and professional life.  And I had no idea that that was going to happen (oh, the irony!).  Perhaps it was because I expected that people would judge me for who I was and [...]

Question:  I know you’ve previously stated that a reincarnated soul chooses their own parents, but do you (as a soul) ever get to choose the soul of your potential children?  Do souls get together and plan like that, or is it much like real life and you just end up with who you end up [...]

As some of you may remember, I belong to a Mastermind group with whom I meet every other week.  We go over our intentions with the group, and we help refine our intentions to make sure we’re a vibrational match for our desires.  If you don’t have a Mastermind group in your life, I highly [...]

Question:  Do my spirit guides select a person for me to fall in love with?  If so, do they have to get some type of agreement from her spirit guides?  And how do they make sure we find each other?
Answer:  I believe spirit guides do play a role in many relationship meetings, but not all [...]

“You can stand tall without standing on someone. You can be a victor without having victims.” – Harriet Woods
All throughout my childhood my dearest and closest friend was my own twin sister, Nicole.  The love between us was really strong.  Sometimes twins can end up competitive, but we were always supportive and loyal to each [...]

Question:  Do deceased family members know when someone is about to die?  Or is their energy so different that they are not connected to them anymore?  Do spirits wait for their spouses to die and then cross over together?  Have you ever seen a spirit wait for a spouse for many years or do they [...]

Often during readings I run across people who are fulfilling their parents’ expectations of them instead of doing what they really want to do with their lives.  Usually when such people come to me they are feeling the tug of another path but fear telling their parents that they want to switch careers.  But expectations [...]